How to Get a Girlfriend Even If You're Ugly, Short, Or Flat Broke!
Myron would have never believed he could ever get a girlfriend because he was short, suffered from acne, and had never even kissed a girl. To say he was a frustrated 19 year old single young man would have been an understatement. Here is something you should know about women. They place way more value on how confident a man is and what he thinks of himself than his physical looks. As proof of this I was recently talking to a gorgeous 19 year old girl who was dating my younger brother. I asked her who her favorite celebrity was and she said that Steven Tyler was. When I asked her why she replied with, "I think he is hot!".
Different women are attracted to different kinds of men. I'm living proof of this. I've dated women that were both taller and richer than me. The key is all in how you present yourself and how you feel about yourself. I'll use myself as an example. When I was 19 years old, I suffered from panic attacks. I used to get them while I was in a classroom full of 200 students. Can you image how embarrassed I was when this happened to me? I would have to get up in the middle of class and then explain to my professor what had happened. He didn't believe me until I got a note from my therapist. Hey, if I can over come this, so can you.
First, you have to realize and believe that women place physical looks a lot lower than men do. Do you see strip clubs for women? Sure you do, but for each one there are 100 more for men and I'm not exaggerating. Women simply are not as visual as men are. Men are attracted to women by what they see. Women are far more convoluted, intricate creatures. They become attracted by what they hear, feel, and then what they see. It's everything combined. This is why it's very critical to have a healthy self image. I could not do it on my own at age 19. I had a lot of issues with my father, who was a verbally abusive drunk who put me down every single day. I knew I had to get help. Four therapists later I finally found one that understood me and what needed to be done. After 6 months of therapy I was a new man. I was ready to date again.
If you want to know how to get a girlfriend then you need to focus on the things you can physically. While women are not as visual as men are you still need to get the basics covered. Whitened your teeth, get rid of the glasses if you have them, start working out and eating better, if you're starting to lose hair go bald (bald is sexy, if you don't believe me go buy the book The Game by Neil Strauss which is a true story on how a short, bald guy became one of the best pick up artists in the world). At the same time focus on your inner self. Go grab the book Awaken The Giant Within by Anthony Robbins. That book changed my life forever and I still read it once a year (the key to mastery is repetition).
You can get a girlfriend even if you're ugly, short, or flat broke because I've done and so have thousands of other men. Nothing happens if you do not do anything, so make sure you start taking action today!
3 Reasons Your Girlfriend Dumped You - a Woman's Guide on Why You Got the Boot
In this article we are going to discuss the 3 biggest reasons why your girlfriend dumped you. Now you may not BELIEVE that these are applicable to you, but if you are like 96% of the men and the relationship problems I regularly encounter, the reasons that relationships end are actually very straightforward, ESPECIALLY if it's the woman that did the breaking up. Let's take a closer look:
Filed Under: You Have NO sense of Adventure
Ok, don't get MAD at me...I'm just telling you what SHE is thinking! Women crave FAR more diversity of experience than men do, and while you may think driving 40 miles to Joe's place on Sunday to watch the game constitutes "travel"...the chances are her spirit years for FAR more than that!
Filed Under: Conversational Conundrums
Women, as they mature and get older...CRAVE conversation. Want to know why Oprah is so popular? Women love to talk and emote. Expressing ourselves is obviously VERY important, and as I'm sure you already recognize...this is NOT a well known strong suit of most men. If you can keep the conversational fire FLOWING...the chances your girl is looking elsewhere is small!
Filed Under: Bad Sex
Yes...MOST women aren't feeling the love in the bedroom..:-) Over 50% of women recently admitted to a popular offline Women's Magazine that they actively LIE to avoid sexual situations with their boyfriends and husbands. Close to 90% say they've FAKED an orgasm in the last year. And something like 40% said they'd PREFER shopping to having sex with their mate...but (and this is SCARY) the same group FANTASIZED about sex with STRANGERS they saw on the street. Ouch is right!
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How about some MORE erotic facts? Filed Under: Penis Size IS Important! Women admit that they would prefer a man who COMMUNICATES passionately during sex (which means she wants a little lusty dialogue..:-), they want you to learn the landscape a bit better ( understand her body) and they PREFER a man who has a powerful anatomy You can improve all three of these with JUST a little effort..and in my experience, the REWARDS they offer are EACH worth their weight in earth shaking orgasmic gold..:-) |